July 6, 2025 Text: Galatians 6:1-10, 14-18
Dear Friends in Christ,
Many of you may remember the TV show My Three Sons. It starred Fred MacMurray as Steven Douglas a widower with three sons. The series ran for 12 years. The first half of the series was in black and white and featured three sons that were all his. By the time of the color version, he had two of his sons and an adopted son.
The oldest son in the earlier part of the series was named Mike. He eventually got engaged to Sally and an episode focused on their wedding plans. The comedy and sadness of the episode was that Sally’s mom took over. Church, flowers, what guests to invite, reception etc. For the couple it was getting out of hand and was taking away their joy. In one scene, where everybody is doing the planning except them, they try to sneak out of the house to elope. Steve follows them out of the house and says something profound. He asks them what they are doing, and they say they just want to get away for a simple wedding because of all the interference. He then says, “It is ok to think about yourselves, but have you thought about us. What we are all giving up. You are leaving our homes for the first time. We will miss having you around. This is all difficult for us as well.” I just shook my head in agreement. In true TV sitcom fashion, they return to the house and eventually get married, and Mike gets written off the show.
So much of life is like that scene. We get into situations, and it is all about us. We forget the other side of the table. Let’s sit down together today and answer . . .
“WHY DO WE DO THE THINGS THAT WE DO?”
If we see another’s perspective is that a burden? Christ is exhorting us to bear one another’s burdens. Our brothers and sisters in Christ need our encouragement and support. Sometimes that can be difficult to do when bad decisions are being made. We are to restore someone in gentleness. We forgive them and stand by them in those times of suffering. It is what we do.
Why do we do it? Because it makes us a good Christian? Because we like bearing burdens? Do we do it because we think we are fulfilling the Law? Do we do it because we think we will get a payback? Or maybe we do it to feel good about ourselves. We don’t have problems like they do.
Christ is stern in his warning that we be doing it for the right reason. What is the right reason?
We forgive our neighbor because we want them released from their guilt. We listen, we comfort, we counsel because we want them to live in joy and have peace of mind. Our works don’t lead us to sinful pride but to humble service.
The fact is the only way we can do we do for someone else is because of Someone Else. By nature, we only care about ourselves. That scene in My Three Sons really hit home. How can we better focus on the burden of the other?
Because Someone Else, Jesus Christ, has freed us from thinking about ourselves. “Far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (v. 14a). We are slaves to sin and the Law. The cross of Christ has freed us. The cross was once looked at as a defeat. Jesus turned the cross into a place of victory over sin, death, and the power of the devil. We do for someone else, our fellow believers, because Someone Else, Jesus Christ has done what He did for us.
A missionary in Mexico went out of his way to have pastries on hand to serve a group of refugees. The pastries were not essential, and he got asked, “Why are you doing this? These refugees don’t even believe in Jesus.” “Yes, I know,” the missionary told them, “But I believe in Jesus.”
In Christ we are new creation. Because of our cross connection to Christ and empowered by the Spirit, we are crucified to the world and made alive in Christ. In a spirit of gentleness, we restore our brothers and sisters in Christ, and we help them to bear their burdens. It is the thing to do. Now you know why.
Amen.